North American Mission Board article…

by Sean Fennelly on January 6, 2010

From Baptist Men On Mission:

“I’ve seen this,” Regi Campbell says, telling a story. “We had this gathering with about 200 guys and the speaker said ‘If you want a mentor, raise your hand.’ Everybody raised their hand. I mean, 70-year-old guys were raising their hands wanting a mentor. Then (the speaker) said, ‘if you’re ready or willing to be a mentor, raise your hand.’ Nobody raised his hand.”

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Tiger’s Tailspin…

by Sean Fennelly on December 10, 2009

The recent news on the world’s most famous golfer – perhaps its most famous athlete – prompted me to search for the following on Google:

“Tiger Woods & mentor”

Four of the first five returns list two men: Earl Woods, his father, and Bill Walsh, formerly of the San Francisco 49ers.  Until I read it, I didn’t know the legendary football coach played a key role in Tiger’s life.

Here’s what I found interesting:  all four entries are obituraries.  Earl Woods died in May 2006 of prostate cancer. Bill Walsh died in June 2007 after battling leukemia.

You see where I am going.  Around the world, guys are asking at lunch, in pubs and between tee shots how the husband of a stunning former model, father of two beautiful children, the world’s best golfer and first billion dollar athlete –  the guy who has everything – could let this happen?

I don’t know all of the details.  None of us ever will.  But reports suggest the earliest of Tiger’s poor choices correspond closely with the loss of two influential men in his life – his father and his mentor.

I say that knowing I wear mentor-colored glasses.  

So how do you see it?  Tiger is responsible for his choices, but do you think the loss of these men put him in a tailspin?

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Staying the course…

December 8, 2009

On Thanksgiving, my younger brother Blaine began a three-day golf tournament. I was his caddie. It was the last opportunity to spend some quality time with him before he leaves for the University of South Carolina on a golf scholarship. I’m proud to say he’s a good player. He’s an even better teenager.
I caddied for him is [...]

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Unsolicited advice is just criticism.

December 2, 2009

As a mentor, you’re expected to give advice. It’s part of the gig. Your mentorees come to you with all kinds of questions, so you get in the habit of reacting rather than responding.
And that gets you into trouble.
Think about it: you’re in the hospital in intensive care and you overhear the nurses say, “He’s responding [...]

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We’re always leading…

November 24, 2009

I learned a long time ago….I’m always leading. I’m leading people toward success…or not. I’m leading my kids toward independence from God….or toward dependence on God. I’m leading every person I encounter toward God…or away from God. 24/7/365. There’s no “neutral” when it comes to God. Silence and inertia are negative, not neutral.
So when the [...]

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Buzz…

November 23, 2009

Third-party validation is always exciting, especially when it comes unsolicited.
Michael Hyatt is the CEO of Thomas Nelson Publishers and a prolific blogger.  Today, he recommended Regi’s book, Mentor Like Jesus, on his blog.  And many people read his blog.  Many people.
And get this: he’s recommending the book although it was published by a competitor. 
The phrase commonly used to [...]

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How to Effectively Memorize Scripture

November 8, 2009

I was fortunate enough to go through one of the first Next Generation Mentoring groups back in 2003.  One of my biggest takeaways from the group was learning how to effectively memorize Scripture.  My mentor required me to memorize two new Scriptures per month.  Although I was skeptical that I could retain this many Bible [...]

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Rick Warren on discipleship…

October 30, 2009

We’re a couple of months into this mentoring conversation, and so far, it’s mainly been one-way, peppered by some thoughtful comments.
And THANK YOU for those comments. Blogging is akin to shouting  in a forest – you wonder if anyone hears you. The comments tell me you are, and please know I read them, even when there’s no [...]

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…and hunger too!

October 19, 2009

In my last post, I shared what I missed about the “spring” that Jesus puts in us, a “spring of (living) water welling up to eternal life.” (vs. 14)
At the very time Jesus was saying these words to the woman at the well, his disciples were in town buying food (vs. 8). But when they [...]

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How’s your wellspring?

October 15, 2009

I was at the Catalyst Conference, talking to church leaders from all over the country about mentoring. The recurring theme was that men who will take the time to invest in younger men are rare. Very rare.
Why is this?
I didn’t set out on a mission to answer this question, but I think I found the answer as [...]

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